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Tillbaka
After
having heard the letter read from our poor incarcerated sisters
of France, well might we exclaim, Alas, poor France! where is thy
glory? Where the glory of the Revolution of 1848, in which shone
forth the pure and magnanimous spirit of an oppressed nation struggling
for Freedom? Where the fruits of that victory that gave to the world
the motto, "Liberty, Equality, and Fraternity"? A motto
destined to hurl the tyranny of kings and priests into the dust,
and give freedom to the enslaved millions of the earth.
Where, I again ask, is the result of those noble achievements, when
woman, ay, one-half of the nation, is deprived of her rights? Has
woman then been idle during the contest between "right and
might"? Has she been wanting in ardor and enthusiasm? Has she
not mingled her blood with that of her husband, son, and sire? Or
has she been recreant in hailing the motto of liberty floating on
your banners as an omen of justice, peace, and freedom to man, that
at the first step she takes practically to claim the recognition
of her rights, she is rewarded with the doom of a martyr?
But right has not yet asserted her prerogative, for might rules
the day; and as every good cause must have its martyrs, why should
woman not be a martyr for her cause? But need we wonder that France,
governed as she is by Russian and Austrian despotism, does not recognize
the rights of humanity in the recognition of the rights of woman,
when even here, in this far-famed land of freedom, under a Republic
that has inscribed on its banner the great truth that "all
men are created free and equal, and endowed with inalienable rights
to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" – a declaration
borne, like the vision of hope, on wings of light to the remotest
parts of the earth, an omen of freedom to the oppressed and down-trodden
children of man – when, even here, in the very face of this
eternal truth, woman, the mockingly so-called "better half"
of man, has yet to plead for her rights, nay, for her life. For
what is life without liberty, and what is liberty without equality
of rights? And as for the pursuit of happiness, she is not allowed
to choose any line of action that might promote it; she has only
thankfully to accept what man in his magnanimity decides as best
for her to do, and this is what he does not choose to do himself.
Is she then not included in that declaration? Answer, ye wise men
of the nation, and answer truly; add not hypocrisy to oppression!
Say that she is not created free and equal, and therefore (for the
sequence follows on the premise) that she is not entitled to life,
liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. But with all the audacity
arising from an assumed superiority, you dare not so libel and insult
humanity as to say, that she is not included in that declaration;
and if she is, then what right has man, except that of might, to
deprive woman of the rights and privileges he claims for himself?
And why, in the name of reason and justice, why should she not have
the same rights? Because she is woman?
Humanity recognizes no sex; virtue recognizes no sex; mind recognizes
no sex; life and death, pleasure and pain, happiness and misery,
recognize no sex. Like man, woman comes involuntarily into existence;
like him, she possesses physical and mental and moral powers, on
the proper cultivation of which depends her happiness; like him
she is subject to all the vicissitudes of life; like him she has
to pay the penalty for disobeying nature's laws, and far greater
penalties has she to suffer from ignorance of her more complicated
nature; like him she enjoys or suffers with her country. Yet she
is not recognized as his equal!
In the laws of the land she has no rights; in government she has
no voice. And in spite of another principle, recognized in this
Republic, namely, that "taxation without representation is
tyranny," she is taxed without being represented. Her property
may be consumed by taxes to defray the expenses of that unholy,
unrighteous custom called war, yet she has no power to give her
vote against it. From the cradle to the grave she is subject to
the power and control of man. Father, guardian, or husband, one
conveys her like some piece of merchandise over to the other.
At marriage she loses her entire identity, and her being is said
to have become merged in her husband. Has nature thus merged it?
Has she ceased to exist and feel pleasure and pain? When she violates
the laws of her being, does her husband pay the penalty? When she
breaks the moral laws, does he suffer the punishment? When he supplies
his wants, is it enough to satisfy her nature? And when at his nightly
orgies, in the grog-shop and the oyster-cellar, or at the gaming-table,
he squanders the means she helped, by her co-operation and economy,
to accumulate, and she awakens to penury and destitution, will it
supply the wants of her children to tell them that, owing to the
superiority of man she had no redress by law, and that as her being
was merged in his, so also ought theirs to be? What an inconsistency,
that from the moment she enters that compact, in which she assumes
the high responsibility of wife and mother, she ceases legally to
exist, and becomes a purely submissive being. Blind submission in
woman is considered a virtue, while submission to wrong is itself
wrong, and resistance to wrong is virtue, alike in woman as in man.
But it will be said that the husband provides for the wife, or in
other words, he feeds, clothes, and shelters her! I wish I had the
power to make every one before me fully realize the degradation
contained in that idea. Yes! he keeps her, and so he does a favorite
horse; by law they are both considered his property. Both may, when
the cruelty of the owner compels them to, run away, be brought back
by the strong arm of the law, and according to a still extant law
of England, both may be led by the halter to the market-place, and
sold. This is humiliating indeed, but nevertheless true; and the
sooner these things are known and understood, the better for humanity.
It is no fancy sketch. I know that some endeavor to throw the mantle
of romance over the subject, and treat woman like some ideal existence,
not liable to the ills of life. Let those deal in fancy, that have
nothing better to deal in; we have to do with sober, sad realities,
with stubborn facts.
Again, I shall be told that the law presumes the husband to be kind,
affectionate, and ready to provide for and protect his wife. But
what right, I ask, has the law to presume at all on the subject?
What right has the law to entrust the interest and happiness of
one being into the hands of another? And if the merging of the interest
of one being into the other is a necessary consequence on marriage,
why should woman always remain on the losing side? Turn the tables.
Let the identity and interest of the husband be merged in the wife.
Think you she would act less generously toward him, than he toward
her? Think you she is not capable of as much justice, disinterested
devotion, and abiding affection, as he is? Oh, how grossly you misunderstand
and wrong her nature! But we desire no such undue power over man;
it would be as wrong in her to exercise it as it now is in him.
All we claim is an equal legal and social position. We have nothing
to do with individual man, be he good or bad, but with the laws
that oppress woman. We know that bad and unjust laws must in the
nature of things make man so too. If he is kind, affectionate, and
consistent, it is because the kindlier feelings, instilled by a
mother, kept warm by a sister, and cherished by a wife, will not
allow him to carry out these barbarous laws against woman.
But the estimation she is generally held in, is as degrading as
it is foolish. Man forgets that woman can not be degraded without
its reacting on himself. The impress of her mind is stamped on him
by nature, and the early education of the mother, which no after-training
can entirely efface; and therefore, the estimation she is held in
falls back with double force upon him. Yet, from the force of prejudice
against her, he knows it not.
Not long ago, I saw an account of two offenders, brought before
a Justice of New York. One was charged with stealing a pair of boots,
for which offense he was sentenced to six months' imprisonment;
the other crime was assault and battery upon his wife: he was let
off with a reprimand from the judge! With my principles, I am entirely
opposed to punishment, and hold, that to reform the erring and remove
the causes of evil is much more efficient, as well as just, than
to punish. But the judge showed us the comparative value which he
set on these two kinds of property. But then you must remember that
the boots were taken by a stranger, while the wife was insulted
by her legal owner! Here it will be said, that such degrading cases
are but few. For the sake of humanity, I hope they are. But as long
as woman shall be oppressed by unequal laws, so long will she be
degraded by man.
We have hardly an adequate idea how all-powerful law is in forming
public opinion, in giving tone and character to the mass of society.
To illustrate my point, look at that infamous, detestable law, which
was written in human blood, and signed and sealed with life and
liberty, that eternal stain on the statute book of this country,
the Fugitive Slave Law. Think you that before its passage, you could
have found any in the free States – except a few politicians
in the market – base enough to desire such a law? No! no!
Even those who took no interest in the slave question, would have
shrunk from so barbarous a thing. But no sooner was it passed, than
the ignorant mass, the rabble of the self-styled Union Safety Committee,
found out that we were a law-loving, law-abiding people! Such is
the magic power of Law. Hence the necessity to guard against bad
ones. Hence also the reason why we call on the nation to remove
the legal shackles from woman, and it will have a beneficial effect
on that still greater tyrant she has to contend with, Public Opinion.
Carry out the republican principle of universal suffrage, or strike
it from your banners and substitute "Freedom and Power to one
half of society, and Submission and Slavery to the other."
Give woman the elective franchise. Let married women have the same
right to property that their husbands have; for whatever the difference
in their respective occupations, the duties of the wife are as indispensable
and far more arduous than the husband's. Why then should the wife,
at the death of her husband, not be his heir to the same extent
that he is heir to her?
In this inequality there is involved another wrong. When the wife
dies, the husband is left in the undisturbed possession of all there
is, and the children are left with him; no change is made, no stranger
intrudes on his home and his affliction. But when the husband dies,
the widow, at best receives but a mere pittance, while strangers
assume authority denied to the wife. The sanctuary of affliction
must be desecrated by executors; everything must be ransacked and
assessed, lest she should steal something out of her own house:
and to cap the climax, the children must be placed under guardians.
When the husband dies poor, to be sure, no guardian is required,
and the children are left for the mother to care and toil for, as
best she may. But when anything is left for their maintenance, then
it must be placed in the hands of strangers for safe keeping! The
bringing-up and safety of the children are left with the mother,
and safe they are in her hands. But a few hundred or thousand dollars
can not be entrusted with her!
But, say they, "in case of a second marriage, the children
must be protected in their property." Does that reason not
hold as good in the case of the husband as in that of the wife?
Oh, no! When he marries again, he still retains his identity and
power to act; but she becomes merged once more into a mere nonentity;
and therefore the first husband must rob her to prevent the second
from doing so! Make the laws regulating property between husband
and wife, equal for both, and all these difficulties would be removed.
According to a late act, the wife has a right to the property she
brings at marriage, or receives in any way after marriage. Here
is some provision for the favored few; but for the laboring many,
there is none. The mass of the people commence life with no other
capital than the union of heads, hearts, and hands. To the benefit
of this best of capital, the wife has no right. If they are unsuccessful
in married life, who suffers more the bitter consequences of poverty
than the wife? But if successful, she can not call a dollar her
own. The husband may will away every dollar of the personal property,
and leave her destitute and penniless, and she has no redress by
law. And even where real estate is left she receives but a life-interest
in a third part of it, and at her death, she can not leave it to
any one belonging to her: it falls back even to the remotest of
his relatives. This is law, but where is the justice of it? Well
might we say that laws were made to prevent, not to promote, the
ends of justice.
In case of separation, why should the children be taken from the
protecting care of the mother? Who has a better right to them than
she? How much do fathers generally do toward bringing them up? When
he comes home from business, and the child is in good humor and
handsome trim, he takes the little darling on his knee and plays
with it. But when the wife, with the care of the whole household
on her shoulders, with little or no help, is not able to put them
in the best order, how much does he do for them? Oh, no! Fathers
like to have children good natured, well-behaved, and comfortable,
but how to put them in that desirable condition is out of their
philosophy. Children always depend more on the tender, watchful
care of the mother, than of the father. Whether from nature, habit,
or both, the mother is much more capable of administering to their
health and comfort than the father, and therefore she has the best
right to them. And where there is property, it ought to be divided
equally between them, with an additional provision from the father
toward the maintenance and education of the children.
Much is said about the burdens and responsibilities of married men.
Responsibilities indeed there are, if they but felt them; but as
to burdens, what are they? The sole province of man seems to be
centered in that one thing, attending to some business. I grant
that owing to the present unjust and unequal reward for labor, many
have to work too hard for a subsistence; but whatever his vocation,
he has to attend as much to it before as after marriage. Look at
your bachelors, and see if they do not strive as much for wealth,
and attend as steadily to business, as married men. No! the husband
has little or no increase of burden, and every increase of comfort
after marriage; while most of the burdens, cares, pains, and penalties
of married life fall on the wife. How unjust and cruel, then, to
have all the laws in his favor! If any difference should be made
by law between husband and wife, reason, justice, and humanity,
if their voices were heard, would dictate that it should be in her
favor.
No! there is no reason against woman's elevation, but there are
deep-rooted, hoary-headed prejudices. The main cause of them is,
a pernicious falsehood propagated against her being, namely, that
she is inferior by her nature. Inferior in what? What has man ever
done, that woman, under the same advantages, could not do? In morals,
bad as she is, she is generally considered his superior. In the
intellectual sphere, give her a fair chance before you pronounce
a verdict against her. Cultivate the frontal portion of her brain
as much as that of man is cultivated, and she will stand his equal
at least. Even now, where her mind has been called out at all, her
intellect is as bright, as capacious, and as powerful as his. Will
you tell us, that women have no Newtons, Shakespeares, and Byrons?
Greater natural powers than even those possessed may have been destroyed
in woman for want of proper culture, a just appreciation, reward
for merit as an incentive to exertion, and freedom of action, without
which, mind becomes cramped and stifled, for it can not expand under
bolts and bars; and yet, amid all blighting, crushing circumstances
– confined within the narrowest possible limits, trampled
upon by prejudice and injustice, from her education and position
forced to occupy herself almost exclusively with the most trivial
affairs – in spite of all these difficulties, her intellect
is as good as his. The few bright meteors in man's intellectual
horizon could well be matched by woman, were she allowed to occupy
the same elevated position. There is no need of naming the De Staëls,
the Rolands, the Somervilles, the Wollstonecrofts, the Sigourneys,
the Wrights, the Martineaus, the Hemanses, the Fullers, Jagellos,
and many more of modern as well as ancient times, to prove her mental
powers, her patriotism, her self-sacrificing devotion to the cause
of humanity, and the eloquence that gushes from her pen, or from
her tongue. These things are too well known to require repetition.
And do you ask for fortitude, energy, and perseverance? Then look
at woman under suffering, reverse of fortune, and affliction, when
the strength and power of man have sunk to the lowest ebb, when
his mind is overwhelmed by the dark waters of despair. She, like
the tender ivy plant bent yet unbroken by the storms of life, not
only upholds her own hopeful courage, but clings around the tempest-fallen
oak, to speak hope to his faltering spirit, and shelter him from
the returning blast of the storm.
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